A Seat At The Table…

In a world full of people pleasers it is refreshing to be yourself. When you choose to be yourself magic happens in your life. You no longer settle for mediocrity but you embrace the extraordinary. It will ignite a spark in you to do life in a different way. Fireworks are created when you no …

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Be Uncommon

When you find out who you are you stop running. All the illusions you once believed about yourself begin to fade away. You realize chasing others for external validation was never needed because you found out the truth. The truth was that you were always amazing. When you are introduced to the real you then …

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Respect Your Haters!

The reality of life is everyone will not accept you, love you, respect you or want to see you succeed but those people really never matter in the first place. However, people who have no self love for themselves will always be jealous of someone else success. They will always be in competition with someone who …

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Blending In Is Overrated, Blending Out is Underrated!

We live in a society where everyone wants to blend in just to fit in a box. The box implements boundaries and limitations that decrease the level of originality. No one wants to be different because of the paralyzing fear of being rejected. Rejection is the sore that festers from hurt and pain inflicted by …

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10 Lessons From The FLOTUS on Ladyhood & Femininity

Lesson 1: Be a confident womanLesson 2: Wear your clothes do not let them wear you!Lesson 3: Be bold without making excusing for who you are, No validations needed.Lesson 4: Your beauty is timeless do not force your presence.Lesson 5: A woman does not have to act like a man to be a woman of …

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Hidden Beauty

No longer hiding what is naturally been beautiful about me; my truth to myself. ~Stylicia A. Bowden~  It's official 2013 is now here and as quickly as it was ushered in it will quickly roll pass too. Alot of people have jumped on the New Year's Resolution bandwagon saying "This year will be different". I often ponder wondering what …

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The Individuality Factor: The Nonconformist

Individuality is a beautiful freedom to be totally you.~Stylicia~In this world we live in being different can sometimes be frowned upon but being an individual carries a lot of freedom yet it also carries a lot of weight. Those who live in a country where conformity is the ideal thing may have a hard time …

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Unapologetic

I rarely blog about celebrities but we have to understand they are human too and who are we to judge..everything was made through God so none of us are a piece of junk but imperfect masterpieces navigating our way through this thing called life. ~Stylicia~Rihanna is infamous for being in the news, if it is not about …

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The Michelle Obama Era

 It never does us any justice to live below our standards, to hate anyone, to ridicule or tear down someone else character. We live in a world where anything is possible but we first have to deal with our demons and become better women and men. We have to be willing to stop hiding our …

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